I am very happily married – though there are those flashes!
We “get” each other, and know when to just say to ourselves, “whatever”… and move on. We know what is really important… and we know what is NOT. We know that flashes of emotion, are only displays of our deeper wants, and needs. There is joy wrapped within them. And it all makes us stronger.
Here is the thing. I am going to write even more about my own experience within my own world. I am going to write about why I believe things. And I know the process of resolving conflicts with our beliefs, can become empowering. I have done much of this… but I have not organized the thoughts. There needs to be more structure to it.
My brain does not work the way most people’s do. But it also gives me some interesting abilities. I can easily view 3D images in my mind… rotating then… even exploding them to visualize all the parts… screws… and whatever, in 3 Dimensions.
I can conceptualize a 4D object… I can “visualize” the axis grid…
So I know my brain is not diminished. I am okay. Even if my mind comes up with odd conclusions ,there is no reason to diminish my intellect. If you can not connect to the concepts I present, then maybe it is your intellect that is lacking. Or not.
There really is no way of knowing.